Do you have that moment when you wake up one day, and you realize you’re a whole different person.
It doesn’t happen all of a sudden, it happens gradually. You don’t notice it at all, until that person who you haven’t spoken to , talks to you and you realize how … much you’ve changed. But people treat it as a bad thing.
‘Oh dude, you’ve changed a lot’
How is that an insult? Frankly, when someone said that to me I felt upset. Like I had lost my identity.
And then I realized the only thing constant is change. If you don’t change, something is wrong. human beings evolve everyday, every minute. How is being a different person from two years scary?
Even the earth changes every second.
You change. You grow. You mess up. You’ll learn. That’s life.
And the sooner you realize that, the sooner you let go of that immature self you carry around with you in fear of change.
Embrace the person you become. You’ll have to learn to live with them.
And someday, like I did today,you’ll realize how much you love the person you’ve changed into.